Do you remember the first time you met your partner?
Or when both of you merged the vibrational energy, long before the marriage?
As time goes by, married couples don’t realise that sometimes, they are forcing their spouses to align with their desire.
Or they stop putting effort to keep their vibrational energy moving in the same wavelength with their spouses’.
For some Malaysians and people around the world, have been living with the same person for so many years makes them feel used to the existence of their spouses, thus they stop trying – which could lead to divorce.
Not only they stop trying to understand their partner and communicate their fears & feelings, but they also stop trying to be more serious in resolving any problem that arises.
If you are facing a problem in your marriage and any attempt to solve it leads nowhere, do not hesitate to seek professional help.
Ask your spouse to go for marriage counselling with you as soon as possible in order not to drag the issue for too long so you can avoid divorce.
Couples in Malaysia Who Might Need Marriage Counselling the Most
Before we go into the signs your marriage needs counselling, take a look at some traits that put Malaysian couples at the higher risk of divorce:
- Couples who get married young
- Couples in a lower income bracket
- Couples with poor communication
- Couples who profess different religions
- Couples with divorce trauma from their parents
If you belong in one or some of the traits above, don’t worry. It doesn’t mean that your marriage will end up in divorce.
But both of you need to try harder to keep the vibrational energy move on the same wavelength, which is possible by attending a marriage counselling.
These are the Signs Your Marriage Needs Counselling to Avoid Divorce
Malaysians, wondering if your marriage is heading to divorce and need counselling from a therapist? These are the signs that you can take note:
When You are Afraid to Talk
Some issues can feel so frightening to bring up to, especially when it comes to sensitive issues such as sex, money or family-related.
There are some reasons why they are so frightening, from not wanting to hurt their spouses, difficulty to pass the message to worry the action will ruin the marriage.
A therapist will lead the marriage counselling and help to clear the issues between the couple. She will help you to gain a better understanding of what both of you are truly talking about.
When You are Not Talking Anymore
As mentioned above, after a few years of living together, some couples in Malaysia are getting used to the existence of their spouses.
Having the same routine for all those years will make matters worse and without realising it, both of you just stop talking.
Through marriage counselling, the therapist will facilitate a new way to make both couples communicate with each other again.
When You Punish Your Spouse
Some Malaysians tend to punish their spouses when they make a mistake. This could be in the form of giving a silent treatment or withholding sex.
If you are at the receiving end of the punishment, your spouse is hoping that you will realise what you have done and do what they want you to.
When this happens, it means your marriage is lacking balance and communication. You need to identify why your spouse chooses to do so.
When You Harbour Negative Feelings
Negative feelings such as disappointment and resentment could turn into hurtful, and sometimes, harmful behaviours.
If you have been hurt before, don’t mask your feelings as if you are alright. Give in to your feelings and let your spouse know how hurtful it is for you.
Some Malaysians may try to get even but sadly, revenge is counterproductive and will lead to divorce.
Marriage counselling will help the couple sort out negative feelings and find better ways to express them.
When Your Sex Life Has Shifted Significantly
It is common for your sex life to be less exciting after a few years of marriage. However, when the shift is significant, it signals that something is not right.
For instance, some wives experience loss of sexual desire after the birth of a child or lack of satisfaction with the relationship.
An increase in sex from husbands could be a sign that they are having an affair to make up for what they have been doing.
Wisdom Liberty Marriage Counselling in Malaysia
Besides making an appointment with a therapist in KL and attending marriage counselling together, Malaysians couples can attend Wisdom Liberty workshops to save their marriage from divorce.
If you and your spouse don’t feel comfortable with private marriage counselling, try Wisdom Liberty workshops!
Our workshops are designed to re-balance the energy that resides in you, helps you to be clear of what you want in the marriage and releasing old blocks.
Therefore, you can truly speak up and out with love to your spouse, while constantly living from the heart.
Or perhaps you have some limiting beliefs and childhood experiences that subconsciously affecting your behaviour in the marriage.
Let our therapist and transformational coach, Linnet Tan, guide you to release them, re-align your energy and help you to tap to the full potential that is ready to be awakened.
Some of the Wisdom Liberty Workshops that are held in KL are:
- Speaking and Honoring My Truth
- Reigniting Our Purpose and Passion
- Clearing Stress and Embracing Joy & Grace
Click here to see more workshops and courses
Sometimes, the first step to attain the changes you desire in your marriage starts from within.
It starts from you taking action to become the better, BEST version of yourself.
Therefore, Malaysians, it is never too late to save your marriage. Let our therapist, Linnet Tan, helps you with marriage counselling.
If you need more information about the marriage counselling and workshops in KL, contact our therapist here.
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